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Monday, September 7, 2009

In Search of Family History

When searching for ancestors. the best is in discovery ~
The saddest is to come to the end of the line.
I have to begin this segment saying the least likely grandparent to have an interesting family history has heritage which blazes right into English Royalty.
The most likely has heritage leads us into English History as well as Fables.
All is worth sharing.
My Maternal Grandmother was a beautiful woman right up until her 86 years came to an end.
Smart, organized, independent...all good characteristics she embodied in abundance. She was my most admired person...not especially lovable, but admirable.
Orphaned early, she lived with her Uncles' family until 18 when she married. Her life was spent raising seven children in hard times.
Here is some of what has been discovered, which places new destinations on my list of things to do. My "Bucket List" so to speak.
Great (many times) grandparent was James Neals, Esqr who was granted 2000 acres in Charles County, Maryland when he immigrated circa 1636. There, he had built Wollaston Manor.
Wollaston Manor is made up of 2,000 acres patented in 1642 to Captain James Neale and was named for his Grandfather's home in Northamptonshire, England.
Neale's wife, Anne Gill, was Lady-in-waiting to the wife of Charles I, Queen Henrietta Maria. Arriving in Maryland in 1636, Neale traded with Indians, was member of the Privy Council, a Commissioner of Treasury and a Magistrate. Neale's four children were born while he was King's Emissary to Spain and Portugal, and became Maryland's first naturalized citizens after his return to province in 1660. A house built near Wollaston Manor, known as "Lone Holly," survived until 1900.
THE FOLLOWING DESCRIPTION: Transcribed material, correspondence and newspaper clippings concerning the Neale home in Maryland.

If one had the privilege of choosing the spot where he wished to be born, he could find none more attractive than Wolleston Manor. Long ago the old manor house was destroyed by fire, and not a vestige of it remains to tell its story,

Page 2 The site where once it reared its lofty walls still exists -a small plain fronting the majestic Potomac for a mile or more, and presenting a vista of such rare natural beauty and splendor as to have no compeer on either side of that noble stream. Standing on the spot where the manor was erected in the early days of the Seventeenth Century, to the left, as one looks out on the river, lies a grove of primeval oaks, beneath whose shade the heroine of this narrative played when a child. No doubt she heard from her parents and from her kindred the saga of her family, one of the proudest that ever came from England to settle this continent.
Beautiful women, the queens of Maryland issued from that race, and men of great ability, who, from the founding of the colony down to the day of her death, made and were making great history. On both sides of the Chesapeake Bay and on both banks of the turbulent Potomac lived families of the first distinction in whose veins ran the same blood that coursed through young Rose Maria's. Southern people, particularly those from Maryland and Virginia, paid more attention to their birthright than did the people of the other colonies, and that characteristic alone set them apart, as different from their neighbors to the north. It was a remarkable connection in which to be bred and educated. No aristocratic race was ever finer. And we shall see that this famous woman, descended from Irish and Spanish royalty and having the best qualities of each, was ever and always an aristocrat , deeply attached to the soil which her ancestors had cultivated, and deeply loyal to the traditions which made Maryland
one of the foremost States in the Union. Blood kin to many of the first families in Southern Maryland, she knew the history of each family and also the history of the other great families who lived on the shores of the Potomac and were neighbors to Wolleston Manor. Around one little town - a consequential town in colonial days and down to this century -Port Tobacco, there clustered the homes of some of the most distinguished men and women of their times - homes where Washington and Lafayette and other leaders in the War of Independence were often guests, wining and dining, dancing and reclining, and sitting down to a stout game of cards. At Mulberry Grove lived John Hanson, President of the First Congress organized under the Articles of Confed-eration. in 1781, and often called the First President of the United States, who extended to Washington the official thanks of his country when that great soldier came to Philadelphia to make formal announcement of the surrender of Lord Cornwallis at Yorktown.
Nearby is LaGrange, named in honor of the home of Lafayette, where resided Doctor James Craik, the first Surgeon General of the United States Army, but whose chief claim to our remembrance is that he was Washington’s most intimate friend, who closed his eyes in death.
Neighbor to LaGrange is Rose Hill, where Doctor Gustavus Brown , the consulting physician in Washington' s last illness, with his incomparable wife, dispensed a hostility that is
Page 4 traditional even in our times. Just beyond Rose Hill is Habre-de-Venture, the seat of Thomas Stone, one of the Signers of the Declaration of Independence, although he did not favor a war with England. His fame lingers on with the passing years. Around it clings a romantic aura, for he died of a broken heart, while still a young man, grieving over the loss of his beautiful young wife. Some miles to the southeast of this cluster of historic halls stood Wolleston Manor, a great house older than any of the others. Here Captain James Neale, on October 21, 1642, established his residence, on a grant of two thousand acres, given him by Governor Leonard Calvert. Source:
This is an excerpt from an unpublished mss of Mrs. Robert Greenhow by David Rankin Barbee.

Saturday, September 5, 2009

Response to Older Posts

What great joy it is to have comments posted to a much older Post.
The comment is from a Military Wife to the Waiting Vietnam Wife posting.
She, too, waited at home with a baby while her husband served in Vietnam. Hearing from her makes me realize that perhaps we should write about subjects that will bring back memories to others who lived similar lives.

I loved her comment and it meant a great deal to me. She shared that she grew up fast in the first few months he was gone. Was touching to read. Thanks so much Sarah, wherever you are.

My husband was an AF pilot and when we talk that war, he said he would like to go back as he saw Vietnam from the air and airfields...even though he served three tours there. He
remembers the beginning when Saigon was calm and safe...they stayed in a Hotel downtown and took a taxi out to the Airfield to fly each day...a Gentleman's War at first, however, soon the Hotel was bombed and came under sniper fire, leaving Saigon one more hot spot.

The news crews were there and it became a televised war, remember? During those times, I didn't watch the news.

Sarah, not too long ago, I met with the Washington Writers where a book written by a Vietnam wife was discussed. The speaker read parts of her book...which you and I would take to be military life as usual, however, the entire room fell silent as they learned about that time in the woman's life. The speaker for the evening was amazed.
I encourage you to write.

We are planning a trip to see Vietnam as tourists in 2010. I have met so many Vietnamese who have come to the States. When they feel comfortable with you, they have stories that are so dramatic, they are hard to actually believe.
One of these days I will
get around to writing them too.
June

Major Trip Planning


One of my favorite things to do is to plan a trip. First thing I do is to check the weather at the destination...next is to buy clothes, next, buy clothes and then maybe a few more clothes. Now the airlines have restricted our weight limit.
Perhaps soon, they will start charging for passengers being overweight. That really should be done for all who can't fit in one seat.

Thinking about the lowered weight limit, I found somewhat of a solution ~ I found new lightweight luggage. The luggage manufactures are doing a great job for us. I love my new carry on that weighs only 4 pounds empty. It even has wheels on one end which will roll down the aisles easily.
Ford tells everyone he loves to travel with me as it's like traveling with a Target Super Store...I take everything. At least have learned to pack and then take out about a third of what I wanted to carry. That makes us pack outfits actually needed and not everything I "might" want to wear. And a road trip? I toss in lots of shoes. Don't you?




Wednesday, September 2, 2009

Ocean City, Maryland

Crossing the Bay Bridge in route to Ocean City. The Chesapeake Bay Bridge (commonly known as the Bay Bridge) is a major dual-span bridge in the U.S. state of Maryland. Spanning the Chesapeake Bay, it connects the state's rural Eastern Shore region with the more urban Western Shore.















Kite flying is fun~ Baby discovers treasure in the sand.
















Waiting for just the right wave to ride boogie board in~ And later, spending the afternoon on the Boardwalk. Jimmy and Megan Ride the Sling Shot!!! We enjoy Thrashers French Fries, etc...




I and, of course, I enjoy looking for just the right shot~

Photo made from balcony of our condo ~ lots of soft white imported sand ~ it's as soft and white as the Gulf Sand. Nice!

A lovey time with family~ Great food is easy to find~the beach wasn't crowded and the waves were HIGH ~ alternating a little rough to lots of fun.

Tuesday, a cool wind blew in to remind us we were in the Eastern Shores where Autumn arrives early. The sweat shirts came out and we went to the Boardwalk ~ The Drifters song, "Under the Boardwalk" danced in our heads as we enjoy all the goodies sold by vendors...absolutely the BEST Carmel corn I have ever eaten....or it could have been just being there with the carnival, unlimited junk food, shops and happy people walking along the Boradwalk.

It was all good! Very Good.

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Skirts for Travel

Skirts seem now to be on the comeback for travel.

While in Airports last week, there was a change for women's attire. Many wore full, tea length (calf length) skirts which looked as comfortable as I know them to be and very, very nice.
Many had thong shoes or sandals. What happened to covered toe shoes for travel?
Skirts?
I have long known to wear skirts for travel as so much easier.
HOWEVER...
A nightmare came true for me on a flight from Miami to Washington one time. I was in a then fashionable "jump suit" and of course, nature called. While in the tiny restroom on board and
in flight, with jumpsuit totally undone and down in place, the plane hit unexpected turbulence which altered the little room Naturally, the collar of my jumpsuit was soaked. Horrified, I realized
there was totally nothing I could do about it...what was done was done.

Arriving in D. C., my friends met me and of course, expected a hug, which would put their nose right into my collar. "I have a little cold...no hugs please." A convenient white lie which is allowed, I am assured.

We were advised to wear skirts while in China due to the atypical restrooms we will encounter along the way.

Monday, August 24, 2009

The Farthermost Corner on Earth

To read just a little history of the farthermost corner on earth itself is an amazing experience.
I want to know their history, how the lived thousands of years ago and how that historical journey brought them to this point in history. I want to know what's in their head as they walk along the streets.
I want to go and walk with them on their journey.

Tibet, which has been on my "Bucket List" since I was young, Located where the highest mountains on earth rise to meet the sky...the country sits overlooking China where everything is BIGGER, LARGER than anything on earth. I am in a dream world which just can't be true.

I've read this and that, I've seen movies, specials, but never read in depth as am doing now. To see the Great Wall of China is the very last thing on my "Wish List" which was compiled when I was a little girl.
Have you seen the movie, "Bucket List"? If not, please do. My Wish List is actually my "bucket list."

Saturday, August 22, 2009

Quality of Life

Dear Readers,
I am just back from a trip south ~ while gone, I received a phone call from the daughter of a long time friend saying my friend had died peacefully. The daughter lives in Paris as did her Mother for many years. Sadden, I look back on my friend's life and all the reasons she is my friend~ I so admire her for the quality of children she raised and life she lived. She lived a many faceted life ~ and shared her secrets with me over the many, many years. She and I had totally different political views which I overlooked as she overlooked mine. She had too many other redeeming qualities and I assume she thought same of me as well. I will miss Cay.

All that said, and mentioning I have been away for this past few days ~
took an early morning flight down south to check on my elderly Aunt. God Bless her, she has entrusted her well-being into my hands as did an Uncle for the last few years of his life.

I look back on those years, and my responsibilities to my Uncle as being one of my finest accomplishments. With him, it was a monthly flight from Key West, Fl to spend time and shop with/for him. With my Aunt, at the point, that won't be necessary. Thank God. She is still in her home and I phone daily, so this keeps me close to her.

I found my Aunt Dot doing well...very well indeed. In fact I will say she looks fabulous to be rapidly approaching 90 and becoming her sassy self again.

We give thanks for Mike who was willing to move in with her so that she can stay in her home.
He is doing an outstanding job. He manages her, the house, lawn, food and over-see her medicines, Doctor's appts etc.. He's a great cook and loves to help her. He has actually brought her back from the brink of death.

It was heart-warming to see her laughing and happy. Met with cousins as she has no children, and some of us worked on legalities for her and then went on a shopping spree to enhance her life~ We met with her Doctor as well.

We showered her...new dresses for home wear, new shoes, hair cut, closets arranged and then, yesterday, we put the icing on the cake, so to speak ~ we bought for her the largest LCD, HD flatscreen TV they make...

She once was a pro golfer and of course an avid follower of the game plus football season is almost here. Seeing her new flatscreen, was amazed and thrilled~

She looked like a million dollars and everyone was HAPPY, HAPPY, HAPPY!!!
What a wonderful four days in my life.

Memories ~ Life is a great trip!


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